ABOUT FAMILY COMMUNICATION
Have you ever felt stuck in a pattern with someone you care about, as if change were out of reach?
- Have you ever felt stuck in a pattern with someone you care about, as if change were out of reach?
- Do you ever sense that no matter what you do, the unspoken subtleties in your most meaningful relationships remain unshakable?
- Do you ever sense that no matter what you do, the unspoken subtleties in your most meaningful relationships remain unshakable?
Shifting family or relationship dynamics is a huge challenge but with learning new ways of communicating it is 100% possible!
Learning new ways of communicating can not only heal your relationships but also prevent trauma in families and partnerships.
Most romantic partnerships and family relationships say their biggest issue is communication.
Family Communication is the way verbal and non-verbal information is exchanged between family members and/or romantic partnerships.
Many believe that communication is all about how we speak and express our perspective, however there are more subtle aspects of communication such as the ability to pay attention to the spoken and unspoken, for yourself and for others, that can deeply affect our bonds with one another. For better, or for worse.
Our words can say one thing when our bodies, tones, and actions can be saying another. Our minds and bodies pick up on these misalignments, resulting in long-standing relationship dynamics that have the potential to really hurt us.
Receiving education in Family Communication through Family Dynamics Coaching can help you learn how to create emotional safety for yourself and others in order to shift out of unhealthy dynamics and into healthier ways of relating to one another, where our bonds are strengthened.
The emotional safety learned in Family Communication support and education helps everyone in the dynamic feel more connected with one another.
At this point in human history, we’ve all grown up during a time when we weren’t allowed to have, let alone express our feelings. How then could we possibly know how to communicate with them or about them in a group setting!? Our school and education systems don’t ever teach us how to have healthy relationships, so how then, are we expected to know how to run a family or participate in romantic relationships if we’ve never been taught?!
Not everyone needs education in Family Communication, some families have the privilege of already knowing how to partake in healthy relationship dynamics. But others don’t. It’s not always someone’s fault, and most of the time no one is intentionally hurting the other, but the hurting happens and Family Dynamics Coaching can help!
Here at FamilyCommFlow, we believe and have seen Family Communication concepts avoid and heal family trauma, reconnect and heal family estrangements, prevent divorce, repair the root of long-standing issues within families and marriages, create new ways of relating to one another, and even help our single clients find and maintain a healthy romantic partnership after multiple failed relationships.
There are several ways to speak our truths out loud where it does not overpower another’s truth.
There are several ways to create a healthy family and romantic partnership.
You deserve to be seen and heard.
Let’s see which way works for you and your loved ones!
FAQ's
Family Therapy is more about processing feelings to heal the past and relieve emotional distress. Family Dynamics Coaching is more about noticing what dynamics in the relationship/family that are working and which dynamics are not. From there, Family Dynamics Coaching can help you and your loved one(s) create a new dynamic in the relationship that feels healthy and emotionally safe for all involved. With the help of Family Dynamics Coaching, family members or partners learn new ways of communicating and relating to one another that create emotionally safe closeness and ease in navigating the relationship in the future!
Absolutely! Family Dynamics Coaching and Family or Individual Therapy can work in tandem together.
Nevertheless, there are many new schools of thought that there is so much lacking in talk therapy these days. It is our hope that the support you receive within the Family Dynamics Coaching that we offer, that we can help fill in the gaps where traditional Family Therapy may miss the mark.
Therapy can be so healing, but it does not always help in learning how to communicate differently or shifting relationship dynamics. There are also individuals I’ve worked with that have been in therapy for years and never learned these skills or new ways of being that coaching can offer.
If therapy didn’t really work for you, or it worked on some level and yet there is still something missing in your family dynamics or romantic partnerships, I highly recommend giving Family Dynamics Coaching a try! I really believe you will be glad you did.
The goal of Family Dynamics Coaching is to help individuals learn to uncomplicate their complicated relationships by creating emotional safety for everyone within the family or relationship dynamic.
However, you may have a specific goal in mind when it comes to your specific relationship. It’s our job to make sure you feel seen, heard, and supported in accomplishing the goals that feel the healthiest for your particular situation.
This can unfortunately be a common occurrence. It can create a lot of disorientation, anger, and sadness.
However, working with individuals on their own can still result in deep healing and help them shift other relationships in their life where it breaks unhealthy relationship dynamics with others. Even just focusing on one relationship can help better other relationships in your life, whether it is now or in the future.
Even if not all parties are open, there are lots of healing options for the person seeking them.
Family Communication is such a passion of mine because my own education and support in the field have deeply transformed my own family relationships where I personally feel a safety I’ve always been yearning for. It is still a work in progress, but you can read more about my personal story here (about Julie link).
Our beliefs, senses of self, and worldview are all significantly influenced by our mothers, fathers, siblings, romantic partners, friends, aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents, etc. Since these relationships affect so many aspects of our own lives, it’s hard not to get passionate about something so important!